Actor Ayo Edebiri Shows How to Handle a Loaded Question
An exchange at the Venice Film Festival has been circulating online — and it’s an interesting case study for anyone preparing for media interviews.
During a press conference for After the Hunt, Italian journalist Federica Polidoro asked the panel about movements such as Black Lives Matter and MeToo. But she pointedly told actor Ayo Edebiri the question was “not for her.” Edebiri, who is black, gently but firmly challenged the exclusion, then went on to answer the question with poise and without rancour.
It’s worth noting this wasn’t a one-to-one interview. It was a press conference — recorded and streamed for journalists and festival attendees — and there were three actors on the panel. You can watch for yourself here.
Polidoro, who is clearly not a native English speaker, then rephrased the muddled question like this:
“The question (is) for Julia and Andrew. Now that the MeToo era and the Black Lives era are done, what do we have to expect in Hollywood and what (did we lose) if we lost something during the politically correct era?”
At this point, Edebiri jumped in and said that she wasn’t sure why she was excluded but she wanted to say that she did not feel ‘it was done’. She then went to expand on the point with support from Roberts.
You can read Newsweek’s write-up of the incident by clicking here.
So what are the lessons?
- Journalists sometimes ask bizarre questions.
It may be accidental, careless, or a deliberate attempt to provoke. Either way, a trained spokesperson does not have to accept the question as asked. You can acknowledge, side-step, and reframe so that you give a thoughtful answer without being pulled somewhere you don’t want to go. In this case, Edebiri did not accept being excluded and jumped in to have her say. - Questions are often framed to suit the news cycle.
Polidoro has had a lot of online abuse about her question, and has not really explained why she tried to exclude Edebiri, so it’s difficult to know if it was a whim, a misphrasing or something more calculated. But reporters often frame questions in a way that tries to limit the response. For example, “What are your three top tips?” “Which moment defines you?” Or the classic loaded question: “Have you stopped beating your wife, yes or no?” These questions are traps if you treat them literally. You may not have ever considered three top tips, or you may have five, you may not think there is one moment that defines you. And any partner would certainly want to say, ‘Just to be clear, I have never physically harmed my wife or anyone else. ’ The skill of a trained spokesperson lies in recognising the framing — then answering on your own terms. - Don’t pick a fight, however tempting.
Edebiri’s response is a masterclass in tone. She didn’t let the exclusion slide, but nor did she escalate. She calmly challenged the assumption of the question and went on to explain that just because there was less use of the hashtags, there was still a lot of work being done. She did not attack the journalist or complain about being excluded. - Presence matters as much as words.
In moments like this, body language, facial expression and tone of voice do as much work as the content of the answer. Edebiri projected authority without aggression, and her body language was apologetic to her fellow panellists for interrupting, although she was clearly determined. That balance is what made the clip powerful and ensured she could not be criticised for being offensive to someone who may have just misphrased something in a foreign language. - Prepare for the unexpected.
You can’t rehearse every possible curveball, but you can rehearse techniques: pause before answering, ask the journalist to repeat the question if you need the thinking time, reframe the premise, and decide what message you want to leave behind. That preparation makes it much easier to keep your cool under pressure.
For spokespeople, the takeaway is simple: you can’t control the question, but you can always control the answer. This is exactly the sort of thing covered in media training. Something we know a bit about.